I guess in the end I am a magnet for every unsettled, unhappy, bipolar, nut ball. Makes me very happy to have a group of very close true friends.
This started with the reemergence of a couple I used to chat with years ago. After a week or so we went out to dinner. I had a great time. Next the one partner started becoming all clingy and showing quite a bit of dissatisfaction and self-loathing. After about 3 weeks of this and him asking me if certain people on line hated him etc., he became increasingly paranoid. Then he became passive - aggressive. I do not deal with passive - aggressive. I am not passive - aggressive and everyone knows that if anything I am aggressive - aggressive when pushed wayyyyy too far.
After blasting me publicly with a few quips, I just asked publicly "Passive - aggressive much?" At this point I was finished with the potential friendship(s). This continued on gay.com with an attempted smear campaign, with him privating people about me. Bad choice. My rep as a nice guy is known by most. Then he was stupid enough to try to get one of my close friends involved. I was proud when my friend said "That is between the two of you, don't get me involved". Soon after he posted publicly on gay.com that he was deleting "certain people" from his facebook friends list. ROFL!!!
How second grade is this? Grow the fuck up!!! I only wanted to be a friend, not your therapist. As I've told others before, I could have been the best friend you ever had, but I am now done. Now I know why we didn't talk for 3 years. I need to learn that when I walk away from people and cut the cord there is a reason, even if I don't remember why. I know the previous stalking / harassment deal left me jaded and mistrusting. Shit like this just reinforces my feelings that trying to get close to people online is just a losing proposition. I am getting better at weeding out the nut jobs. This one only took about a month.
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